Childless Baby Boomers May Become Elder Orphans
Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, graduations, and many other holidays and events focus on happy families getting together. Many baby boomers, especially the younger ones, have remained single or married and childless. Although they may feel some sadness, some sense of being left out during these moments of family gathering and family pride for many years, while working and enjoying their daily life, the issue of being childless may not matter much.
However, as childless boomers grow older they may experience problems for which they have no financial or social support. Memory problems associated with the aging process, such as dementia and Alzheimers, emotional problems such as anxiety and depression, or chronic physical problems can be difficult to handle without caring and responsible family to oversee procedures, doctors’ visits, etc.
This article struck me personally and I felt compelled to share it. As a baby boomer who married late in life, I did not have children and I know that I need to prepare for my future as an “elder orphan” a term that feels a bit threatening and even scary.
Please share in the comments below your own thoughts about this topic that is rarely discussed.
“There is potentially no structure to address this population as this population is hidden right before us,” added Carney, who calls the group elder orphans because they are aging alone and unsupported, with no known family member or designated surrogate to act on their behalf.
“Our goal is to highlight that this is a vulnerable population that’s likely to increase, and we need to determine what community, social services, emergency response and educational resources can help them.”
In their study, the researchers highlighted the case of “HB,” a 76-year-old man living alone who was brought to North Shore University Hospital in Manhasset, N.Y., after a failed suicide attempt.
With his only existing family across the country in California, HB’s case was complicated and prolonged by delirium, unclear decision-making capacity and lack of social support. He was discharged to a nursing facility for likely eventual long-term placement, the researchers report.
The researchers conducted a literature search and review estimating the prevalence of elder orphans and their risks using Google Scholar, PubMed, CINAHL, and Health Reference databases.
U.S. Census data from 2012 showed that about one-third of Americans aged 45 to 63 are single, a 50 percent increase from 1980, the researchers noted. Nearly 19 percent of women aged 40 to 44 have no children, compared to 10 percent in 1980.
Additionally, the University of Michigan’s Health and Retirement Study (HRS) indicated that 22 percent of people over age 65 currently are, or at risk to become, elder orphans. This group is vulnerable to a wide range of negative outcomes that include functional decline, mental health issues and premature death, according to Carney.
“This is a population that can utilize expensive healthcare resources because they don’t have the ability to access community resources while they’re well but alone,” she said.
“If we can provide earlier social services and support, we may be able to lower high healthcare costs or prevent the unnecessary use of expensive healthcare. With greater awareness and assessment of this vulnerable population, we can then come up with policies to impact and manage better care for them.”
Source: North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System